Sometimes it is rather contradicting when it comes to relationships or when two good friends of opposite sex start to feel something for each other . You know why? Thats where problems start to arise. Cause humans tend to seek for trouble when trouble doesn't come. Does it sound like a chinese idiom? Yea.. but I would not type it out la.. And so, emotions start to invade in us. At some extreme, people would even do things that would harm themselves for just a simple and innocent word "LOVE".
I have a very good example. (Don't care who is the male and female lead) Yep.. And so the story starts.. There was once this girl who loves this guy but however, due to certain commitment problems, the guy would not want to have commitment. Cause he felt that this would restrict his freedom. ( This is ridiculous!) Okie.. At the same time, this girl had another guy who loves her a lot and especially dote on her. However, the only thing that was lacking between them was the ability to communicate efficiently and the feelings. Somehow the girl felt that feelings was equally important to her. However, the girl makes a tough decision to decide on the doting guy. But but.. the story does not end as the girl just always feel that something is lacking between her and the doting guy. Till now, she can confidently say that her feelings for the first guy is there or rather always been there. She thought about it. Thought it through.. she couldn't make a decision. Another wierd situation.. or rather contradicting.. It goes like this .. Previously the first guy doesn't want commitments and he stopped for a period of time and not to see her or message her. Whereas, the doting guy kept or message the girl and trying to make her as happy as she is. When the girl decides on the doting guy, the situation is the reverse. The doting guy messages and calls her less and even their outings have been cut down whereas the first guy messages her everyday without fail and even go out with her more often ( Date her out) . Don't you readers find that these kind of things do actually happen? Hai..
In short, " Love does not necessary constitute happiness ; Happiness does not necessary constitute love"
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about me
* Serene Low
* Full time student
* Aquarius
* 11th Feb 1987
* Always cheerful
* Stay positive
* Stay strong
* Independent
